A friend of mine has been staying with me for the past five days, and we've both worked and turned-on together. She also loves to have fun, so we've had dance shake-out, been swimming and overall practiced pleasure, despite being under tough writing deadlines (dissertation and program completion). Without turn-on, we still would have enjoyed each other's company, but it's much easier to get heavy, again with deadlines and outside pressures, and we wouldn't have prioritized the playfulness. 

Turn-on, despite it's apparent fun-ness, is actually, 'hard work', in the sense we need to prioritize practices that bring us to turn-on, and we need other women around us who also are turned-on. This is especially true with aging, where life can truly bring us down, and many women check out. Women can also turn against one another, which is why I previously avoided women in groups. Both because I didn't enjoy it in general, but also because I've been burned and canceled by women. Many of the women who join Awakening Feminine Leadership have somewhat complicated relationship with other women. Joining a turned-on sisterhood is therefore such a game-changer. I've been teaching different version of the Seductress Club for years now, and even though I've taken a break now, it will be back in one way or another. Because being with other women who want to turn-on, is what creates the fuel for awakening feminine leadership. And while it's great fun to flirt with men, it's so much easier and celebratory to flirt with women through dance and outrageous ownership of their awesomeness. To be seen in all our glory - and being fully accepted for our shortcomings as well. Pure gold. 

Do you turn-on with your women friends, ie do you dance to silly and sexy songs together, shake your boobs in unison, and just celebrate your friend's desires? If not, I highly recommend it. If you want some tips, here's my book, Det Allra Heligaste, or What's Most Holy, a pleasurefilled guide to feminine leadership. The English version is almost here too. I also very much recommend Mama Gena's book, Pussy - A reclamation, as well as her earlier book about having fun, Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts. It's especially important to turn-on together when life is extra hard, whether it's the outside world, or difficult things showing up in our lives. 

To a turned-on reality in sisterhood!💃😍