The irony of teaching women that we need to be with other women to turn on, is not lost on me. It's like a big cosmic joke. Because I don't like hanging out with women on a group level, generally. It's too complicated for me to figure out the power balance, who has an unknown agenda, who isn't expressing their needs, who wants something but doesn't know it, who feels threatened etc. As a teacher I've learned how to handle it, but I find it exhausting trying to deal with women in groups privately. Healing my relationship with the feminine, and with women has been one of my most challenging inner journeys.

When I started out, I did not care very much for women and the feminine, which is true for many women who join this work. Many of us have been hurt by other women, and most have preferred being with other men, or being more masculine in general, or just being on our own. However, as soon as we discover that there is a different way to be with other women, everything changes. When women are turned on, in a deep state of presence, we become enhancers of one another instead of detractors. When we wake up that flirtatious, playful and turned-on energy and offer it generously to other women, or rather, it offers itself, it's so contagious! When women jump right into Divine Eros, we all become what we want to have. We tap into a field that is so profound that it generates an enormous amount of joy, pleasure and power. If we also happen to meet men after that; men who are connected to their masculine, it's unbeatable in terms of frequency. 

What is your relationship with other women in group settings?